HIGHLIGHTS
Who are we trying to impress here?
08/16/10 7:41PMOkay, so before I start, I have to admit that this is a pretty random article coinciding with a pretty random thought that popped into my head while I was tweeting. So, I stumbled on a Cosmpolitan.com article that reveals what men think about women’s hair, makeup, scents, clothes…everything that we consider uniquely “female.”
I tweeted the link and started thinking hard about the social implications that an article like this creates; because aren’t things that we consider an extension of ourselves and our personalities (hair and fashion, for example) supposed to be for us? Aren’t they supposed to be free from scrutiny and judgement?
We keep stressing the importance of being comfortable in your own skin (and hair!) and doing what makes you truly happy. Every hair care tip and styling suggestion is something for you, our lovely readers, to take into consideration when finding a look that truly suits your personality, your structure, your comfort level and ultimately, your confidence. We don’t consider long hair “sexier” than sorter hair, nor do we claim that blondes are better than brunettes-or vice versa. It’s all about you and what makes you personally happy and confident. So I get a little bit confused when I read tidbits of Cosmopolitan’s “wisdom” that seem to advocate adopting what someone else finds attractive. We as women get so many conflicting messages thrown at us: for example, we’re told that we have to believe we’re beautiful no matter what (now, whether or nor we actually believe that is another discussion entirely). Then, we’re bombarded with messages about what men find sexy, followed by tips and tricks on how to embody the look. Confused yet? I sure am, because I thought that it’s my confidence and personality that I want a potential significant other to see, not how long or shiny my hair is.
I guess to sum it up, I’ve always believed that someone who chases after looks alone is shallow and that I didn’t want to spend my time with someone who can’t see the whole picture. Thus, articles like the Cosmopolitan poll are switching up my thought process a little by encouraging me to consider what other people find attractive. So guys think long hair is sexier than short hair: does that mean I’m not as attractive to men as I could be, because my hair doesn’t go past my shoulders? But wait, I’m not supposed to grow it out if I like my hair short, because I have to be true to myself and show off confidence and personality with a shorter ‘do? Whew, a girl could get a headache following this circle around and around!
What do YOU think, readers? Am I getting the messages mixed up in my mind, or is there a chance that we are actually being fed the idea that we’re beautiful-unless we possess features and styles that aren’t favored by the opposite sex? Weigh in and email me at info@carouselstrands.com…I’d love to hear what you think!
Emma Watson debuts her post-Potter ‘do
08/11/10 6:45AMHarry Potter actress Emma Watson (for those you living under a rock for the past decade, she plays Harry’s brainy yet brave sidekick, Hermione Granger) was spotted last weekend sporting a very un-Hermione, extremely short pixie cut. Think “girl from the new iPhone commercial” short. Celebrity and fashion bloggers were immediately covering this new switch, and the result is in: Watson’s pixie ‘do is definitely a winner. Not only does she have the bone structure to pull off a short look like this, but she’s got the swagger and the high-fashion confidence that allows her to rock any cut and color we’ve seen on the young actress since she hit the big screen.
Emma’s new look isn’t just about a short cut, though. True, rumors are swirling that she chopped her locks in order to show director David Fincher that she’s seriously considering a role in his upcoming flick, The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (based on the book by the same title). Whatever Watson’s reasons are, though, she’s really started something fresh and new in a world dominated by long hair as a security blanket behind which many women are hiding. Let’s be honest, long hair isn’t easier to style or maintain, and it’s not a “no-fuss” look that many women say they’re looking for when they plop down into the hair stylist’s chair. In fact, having had both long and short hair, I can tell you which one is a lot less of a burden–and cheaper. I mean, hello, do you know how much more shampoo and conditioner we go through with longer hair?!? So yeah, shorter hair is definitely easier to upkeep and style. But more than that, short hair shows off a kind of confidence that long hair tends to hide. Emma Watson’s hair isn’t just shorter–it’s REALLY short, exposing every contour and facet of her facial and shoulder structure. Most women, who aren’t too happy with their bone or face structure, tend to use longer hair to hide behind and cover up, say, ears that they were teased about in second grade or a cheekbone structure that doesn’t rival that of celebs they see on the red carpet.
But thankfully, mega-celebs like Emma Watson, Hayden Panettiere and Selma Blair have started somewhat of a hair revolution, showing that short hair can be sexy and exudes a lot more confidence than locks that cover one’s face. They are really showing that taking risks with hairstyles can be a fresh, fun approach to tackling new challenges, and in Watson’s case, can really get positive feedback from an industry that generally conforms to one standardized ideal of “beauty.”
And I’m jealous, really, because all I can think about now is how much earlier Emma Watson gets to start her day while the rest of us spend upwards of 30 minutes drying and styling our long locks every single day of our lives.
The buzz on hair extensions
08/04/10 9:21PMA recent online article by cosmopolitan.com revealed that the new hot look is long, flowing locks. So, for women who’ve adopted a short and sassy ‘do, hair extensions are the obvious way to get that long hairdo. For the most part, hair extensions are easy to maintain, natural looking and can be styled as simply as real hair.
However…
…it’s entirely possible to have a total “oopsie” moment and completely destroy your look and style. Exhibit A: our beloved Britney Spears who, after taking a razor to her head in 2007, has sported extensions ever since her hair began to grow out a little. For the most part, Brit has maintained her hairstyles and kept her extensions looking natural. But this photo clearly shows that a little too much wear and tear has been placed on her hair, and she had a slip-up in the regular maintenance and care that’s required of extensions. Since they’re placed in hair and not attached to one’s head like normal hair, constant stress on extensions can lead to some…well, just take a look at BritBrit’s Kodak moment above.
On the other hand…
…Ashley Greene knows how to do extensions right. First, they’re neatly hidden and blend in too well with the rest of her hair–so well, in fact, that I wasn’t even aware Ashley had extensions! She definitely exemplifies regular hair care and extension maintenance, as well as a natural hairstyle that compliments her nicely. If you’re going to do extensions, this is definitely how you want to do them. Remember, when it comes to hair, it’s all about having a natural and healthy look. Extensions are just that: an extension of your hair. So, colors that don’t match your hair color or completely noticeable extensions aren’t going to get that natural look that you’re going for. And as always, changing your hairstyle is all about making yourself happy and feeling comfortable and bold in your own skin; so if longer hair is the change you want to make, extensions are a great way to get the new, fun look you’re going for!
How To…
06/21/10 11:29AM…protect your hair from chlorine this summer.
Nothing feels better on a hot day than diving headfirst into a cold, clear pool; but those brief moments of ecstasy can cost you later, as chlorine does a world of harm on your hair. An Associated Content article that I found features some helpful tips to protect your hair from chlorine damage this summer. Check out the article for a full list of measures you can take to protect your hair. Surprisingly, most are extremely simple things that most of us do before we get in the pool anyway, like pulling our hair up so it won’t get wet the entire time or condition our hair regularly to keep it from drying out and losing nutrients. Summer fun doesn’t have to come at the expense of great hair, so take care of your hair as you enjoy all that the warm months have to offer!
How To…
06/20/10 2:10PM…blow dry and style your hair with a round brush!
A friend recently asked me if I could help style her hair. I agreed, until I saw the two items she handed me: a round brush and a hair dryer. Now, I pride myself on being quite adept at styling, dyeing, pinning and, on occasion, cutting hair despite my lack of formal training. However, the one area that I just can’t seem to master is blow drying and styling hair with a round brush. So I went on a mission to find a DIY video that would help me see how this process is done and overcome my fear of the round brush. This YouTube video is extremely informative and easy-to-follow, and it features a professional stylist with a model. I think it’s a great reference that shows how to master a simple yet chic look that’s ready to wear for any occasion or event. Check it out and let us know what you think!
Now THIS is how you do blonde highlights…
06/15/10 3:21PMBrunettes, take note: if you want to go blonde, this is the way to do it. Teen sensation (and bubbly brunette) Demi Lovato took to her Twitter page earlier today to post this pic of her new light locks, just in time for the summer. She keeps her natural color while adding just a little bit of contrast, and the results are just stunning. Demi looks like she just got back from the beach, and this new shade brings out her natural glow. I’m mildly obsessed. In fact, I’m considering taking a page out of this starlett’s book and copying her new ‘do. Take a look for yourself:
Why Katy Perry is just so darn cute
06/14/10 5:28PMLast weekend was the MTV Movie Awards, and I’ll admit that while I didn’t tune in to watch The Twilight Saga sweep every major category, I did pay attention for a hot second. What really captured my attention was Katy Perry’s channeling Marge Simpson and donning a wig of the brightest blue shade. It’s not the first time she’s stepped out in that accessory, either. At the last Kid’s Choice Awards, Katy busted out the blue and make a splash in her contrasting yellow dress.
Despite the event or awards show, it’s undeniable that Katy Perry is a risk-taker when it comes to her hair; and I think the blue was just her shade. It brought out her fun, wild, finger-to-the-sky side that tells people she sets the trends, not follows them. At the same time, she managed to look incredibly feminine and put-together, using her hair as an accessory and toning down her outfits. Just take a look at this picture of Katy rocking out her blue faux-locks:
I personally can’t wait to see what Katy Perry busts out next: will it be a new color, a new cut or even a new, Lady GaGa-esque accessory atop her head? The surprise is what, I think, really keeps us drawn and interested in Katy Perry as a fashion icon, and as her fame grows, her thrilling and trendsetting styles will only get bigger too.
Hello, Summer!
06/13/10 3:24PMAs with any season, summer ushers in new styles of clothing, new music, new mega-blockbuster hits and of course, new hair. So this summer, I’m trying out something new: I’m going curly. I know, I know: I’ve talked about it for a while and deliberated whether straight hair or curly hair was the better look for me. However, with all the humidity and moisture that my Midwest summer has hosted thus far, I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s just not prudent to fight nature anymore. I’m giving in to my natural waves and adding a little extra splash to make sure I have cute curls all summer long.
To get an EXTRA amount of body and boost to my curls, I’ve been engaging in a three-step process. First, after my hair is damp, I run a teeny amount of styling mousse through it and tousle my hair. Then, using a diffuser attached to my blow dryer, I make sure my hair is dry for the most part. Then, I use scrunching gel to scrunch my hair and give it bouncy curls. Top that off with a bit of hairspray to keep the shape in place, and I’m out the door! Then entire process takes around 5 minutes, and honestly, I’ve never been happy with a style. It’s low-maintenence, yet it looks like it took a while to style. Curls also ensure that I’m not frantically worrying about how my hair looks after being exposed to moisture in the air. I can go on enjoying a night out with the girls or running errands around town without a care in the world!
So change up your routine this summer: instead of fighting against what nature gave you, play into your natural style and use it to your advantage. You’ll save a ton of time and stress, and I guarantee no matter what your hair type is, you’ll find a hip and fun style that accompanies it! Give yourself a little break this season and let your hair enjoy a relaxing summer as much as you do!
Gentlemen Prefer Blondes…And Brunettes…And Redheads…
03/27/10 7:30PMGentlemen prefer blondes. At least, that’s what the movies would have us believe. But I’ve been wondering for a while now if that’s really true or if that is just a fabrication. After all, I’d say just as many brunettes or redheads go on dates as blondes do. And while blondes are immortalized in male fantasies and on the silver screen as goddesses of perfection, take a look at any “hot” list put out by entertainment channels or magazines: there are just as many brunettes on that list. So I set out to find the truth about hair color and male/female dynamics. Do men have a preference when it comes to hair? Is attraction based on what’s on one’s head rather than in it? And why on earth does one simple hair color seem to take top priority when it comes to determining looks?
I decided to consult some experts in this area: twenty-something year old guys; and what they told me turned my entire perspective on its head. After asking a friend if hair color really mattered, if men instinctively preferred a certain hair color and didn’t deviate from that preference in their search for a partner, I gained some insight into one type of mindset. Men, he explained, don’t notice hair color first, they notice the entire women. Hair color also isn’t a “type,” and he claims that no man has ever turned down a woman because she had the “wrong color.” He was very adamant that hair color is basically inconsequential. And he’s not the only one, because I received that same response from a few other male friends. Then of course, I received the typical responses that indicated preference in hair color. One friend bluntly stated, “I like brunettes.” Great, I thought. Now I have two opposite answers, and I didn’t get anywhere.
My questions weren’t answered, not really anyway. I thought that the myth about men preferring a certain type of hair color could be dispelled, and as it turns out, there remains some preference, one way or the other. Of course, my mind wandered off to the possibility that it’s not really about preference, but about familiarity. For example, if a male grows up in a household full of blonde women, he’s more familiar with blondes and possibly associates the color with the kind of caring, loving environment that he wants for himself later in life. Or, if his first crush donned a particular hair color, he would seek out women only with that color in order to follow through with his vision of a a perfect, pure relationship. But as my mind wandered, it kept coming back to the same thought: it really ought to matter more what’s in a woman’s head than on it. So you’re a redhead? Well, you’re also the youngest VP in your company’s history, you have a great sense of humor and great friends, and you can play any man under the table in a competitive game of Halo. And you’re a blonde? Nice to meet you, you graduated from medical school at the top of your class and you’re now one of the most respected doctors at a reputable practice. You have a passion for Keats’ poetry and on the weekends, you get together with some friends and watch old movies because you appreciate the classics. Those are the kinds of qualities that I say define a strong, beautiful and desirable woman, far more than a genetic predisposition.
So, what’s my personal verdict? Sure, some men might prefer a certain color or might seek out women with a particular shade; but that, to me, indicates immaturity. That shows that he cares more about how a woman looks than her inner qualities that will last long after her hair loses its luster and color. Personally, I believe a stable, healthy and happy relationship is more likely with the person who sees the entire woman inside and out and doesn’t immediately go to hair color. At least, that’s the kind of person I would bet has more successful and memorable relationships. Color doesn’t matter; color fades and can be altered. What really matters, I believe, is the woman under the color, the bright and vibrant human who refuses to be categorized based on her hair but rather forces people to see her shining personality and brilliant mind.
Why the Controversy Over Crazy Colors?
03/16/10 9:28PMLast week saw the release of Lady GaGa and Beyoncé’s new music video for “Telephone;” and as with any GaGa video came a burst of fashion, color and crazy hair styles. She sported a ‘do tinted with bright yellow dye. This isn’t the first time “GaGaloo” has shocked the world with a confident burst of outrageous color and style. In fact, in every single video, Lady GaGa brings something new to the world of hair and high fashion.
But her latest color palate got me thinking about hair color and what’s considered natural, unnatural, risky and just plain out-of-this-world. ”Natural” or acceptable colors seem to be limited to about four colors: blonde, brown, black and red. There are, of course, shade variations that are acceptable–for example, blonde could refer to a darker, “dirty blonde” look or a platinum shade. But what about other colors? GaGa’s bright yellow hue, for instance, isn’t considered a “natural” variation of blonde. The real question that I keep trying to decipher is why, though. Why is a bold color that is so often used in paintings, graphic designs, even children’s artwork, not okay to show off on your head?
I agree, I’m sometimes taken back by extremely bold hair colors–bright purple has jolted me, and hot pink definitely catches my eye. But they’re just colors. We wear them on our bodies every single day. We paint our nails extraordinary shades and our purses come in the craziest colors. However, when it comes to our hair, there are just some boundaries that aren’t socially acceptable to cross. Wouldn’t it be great to walk down the street, see a bold hair color and admire it instead of being taken by surprise that someone had the audacity to alter their hair in such an unconventional fashion? Wouldn’t it be nice to ignore social constructions of beauty, fashion, acceptability even and adopt, with content, our hearts desires? Shouldn’t “personal expression” be just that: a personal, self-decided way to portray yourself or your emotions?
I would love to see a society built around individuality, independence and the freedom to do what you choose with your style and body; and I want to see a bold, innovative hair color and not be taken by surprise or wonder what comments that woman has received about her hair. And maybe that’s where creative and risky new artists come in. Maybe, in addition to making music, art and innovative new way to express themselves, they are paving the way for personal styles to shine through and creating a more accepting and tolerant environment in which women feel comfortable breaking social norms and following their own paths.
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